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Friends

Saturday Midnight, I woke up for a dream, but couldn’t continue to sleep then. My mind was wandering to pass, a friend from Japan appeared into my memory, she is kind and friendly, we met when we were in Birmingham, UK. Another friend from China came after her, this friend is friendly and clever, we met when we were in Nottingham, UK. Continously, a lot of friends are appeared into my mind and I started thinking: "Where did we meet? What were we doing then? How is s/he? (and lot of memories)" a friend after another. Suddenly, I felt that I miss all of my friends, either who are still in touch or out of touch, I was thinking how are they doing now? Are they fine? Are we still be the same character as when we met? And, I was asking myself? Do I change? Em… yes, I think I do. Basically, I was quiet, reserved girl. But now, I found that actually I can talk a lot (maybe not that lot, but at least not that quiet) with some friends (maybe still have some friends find I am still quie...

"Bonsai" Life

I received a forwarded e-mail today, it is talking about a cruelty action is happening around the world. Bonsai kitten, do you know about this? Below is the link tells you about bonsai kitten, a cruelty behavior on the new born kitten. http://www.gasing.com/forward/bonsai_cat/main.shtml What is bonsai? Which means a very small creature(originally it is a tree, but it applied to a kitten here) that is grown in a small container and is stopped from growing bigger by continually shaping it. Do you think this is cruel to a cat? A live creature. I cannot imagine how some people can be that cruel to abuse a live by controlly its grow and stop it from moving. Is this because we are living as "bonsai" life? Then they try to bonsai other creature. Am I wrong? Don’t you agree we are living as "bonsai" life? If so, you are maybe the lucky one. Actually, people cannot do whatever they want, cannot get what ever they hope for, maybe we still have freedom to move here and there, ...

A Step into the Past

Finally, I finished a series drama DVDs, "A Step into the Past", which is talking about a person goes to Qin Dynasty and explores, where he helps his student to be the first Majssty in China, which is Qin Shi Huang. Frankly, the story might not follow what is written in history, but I like creative of this novel writer, on process this story. Sometime, what we see, hear and listen isn’t as true as it is, it might be in different way. Probably, what we read from history, didn’t happen as what it is written in history book. Many times, we need to observe and analyse, to make sure the fact that we see, hear and listen is really happened in its way. Creative thought would help us see things in different ways. Maybe "A Step into the Past" isn’t a real story, but it helps us to see things in different ways, why don’t we refer to more source before make the decision, this might lead us to a creative path. How do you think?
一个人的兴趣是会改变的吗?我想应该是会吧。 以前,我是个不爱去K歌的人,我认为唱歌在家里常常就行了,为什么要出外唱呢,这或许是因为我妹妹的歌声太好听了,而我又是个不会唱歌的人,弄得我相形见绌,不太敢唱歌。 然而,不知从什么时候开始,我开始喜欢到Karaoke去唱歌,而且还像是上了瘾似的,才刚回到家 (其实是还没回家的前几天),就邀了中学的朋友去Redbox K歌。 为什么会爱上这种活动了呢?我也不知道,或许是因为喜欢听他唱歌吧,或许是喜欢和他一起唱歌吧,或许唱歌是另一种和朋友们聚聚的方式吧,总之能够唱歌、能够听歌、能够看见朋友,是件很开心的事。
认一下你是左脑还是右脑使用者吧! 1. 像祈祷一般,将双手交握起来。。。 看看你的双手 左手拇指被押在右手拇指下的———————->左脑使用者 右手拇指被押在左手拇指下的———————->右脑使用者 2. 将你的双手交叉环在胸前〔揽住自己咁〕 再看看你的双手 右手臂压住左手臂的——————————>左脑使用者 左手臂压住右手臂的——————————>右脑使用者 从1+2来看你的结果*(要照1→2顺序看) 分析: 右左人 善于体贴他人的传统温婉类型 能直觉了解对方的心情,并自然和善对应的右左人。虽然无法主动积极的向前,但却会后退一步来迁就人,生性稳重且贴心,给人一股〔凡事都会好好照顾*〕的安心感。不过一旦被拜托过一次,往后就很难再对他人说〔NO〕就是最大的缺点。不管自己有多么的痛苦也会为他人鞠躬尽瘁….这种热情堪称天下第一! 右右人 最爱自己的挑战类型 生性勇往直前,一旦认定〔就是这个!〕时就会马上采取行动!这就是好奇心旺盛最爱挑战的右右人。凭着一股气势就能够坦然挑战危险事物的鲁莽一族。但另一方面亦具有被抓住弱点时就很容易被打动的鲜细脆弱一面…。基本上,不听他人的话,会跳着听谈话的内容,也很容易就以主观意识说话。不过也因这般充满个性的缘故而备受众人喜爱,往往能成为人气者唷! 左左人 认真又冷酷的完美主义者 虽颇有女人(男人)味,但却是在这四种类型中最具有男子气概!凡事都能条理分明的理论性思考,会凭着一篇大道理迅速打败他,可说相? 磻腽部e钢铁之女〕的感觉。自尊心极高,正义感也比他人多上一倍。做为朋友是很值得信赖,但若与之为敌就会很棘手的类型。只不过,因生性认真又是完美主义者,常会让初次见面的人留下〔难以相处〕的不好印象。 左右人 喜欢照顾人,领导型 具有冷静的观察力能看透对方或现场的气氛,但亦具有能体贴入微照顾对方的一面,这就是兼具冷静与温情的左右人。因生性冷静,颇具男子气概且责任感强烈,像个〔大姐头〕般常会受到同性的爱慕。能自然聚集人群并与之俐落相处。只不过,有时也会忍不住太爱照顾他人。相当在意世人如何看待自己,总是保持警觉心。
看一下下面的故事情节,再回答后面的问题。   五个人同乘的一条游艇遭到暴风雨的袭击而沉没了。这艘游艇上有已经举行订婚仪式的真一和静子,还有真一的朋友熊夫和三郎,静子的朋友真由美。五个人都脱了险,拼命地爬上了A、B两座孤岛。A岛上有静子、熊夫、真由美三个人,而相距很远的B岛上有真一和三郎……。A岛上的静子苏醒过来,察觉到未婚夫不在身旁。“我在这里……!”远处传来真一的呼唤声。真一站在被海水隔开的对面岛上。没有划艇是绝对过不来的。熊夫找到一艘划艇。了解静子此时心情的熊夫,逼迫静子说:“让我吻你一下,就把这艘划艇给你。”想尽快回到真一身边的静子,和真一也没有接过吻,更不应该答应熊夫。静子和朋友真由美商量。真由美马上冷淡地回答:“不要和我商量,这种事你自己去考虑,应该果断一些!”   静子一心想和真一在一起,就对熊夫唯命是从,答应了熊夫的要求,拿到了划艇。起初,真一对静子能来到自己面前,感到很高兴。但一听静子说出拿到划艇的方法,神色马上冷淡下来,断然地把静子回绝掉,说:“我决定和你解除婚约。”看到这场情景的三郎,完全同情静子,多情地悄悄对静子说:“我保护你!我们俩人一起渡过这场灾难吧!”   看完这篇故事,请把你认为讨厌的人,按次序写上号码。把最讨厌的人物标上第一号,以下类推。 解说:   你把静子定为第几号呢?根据静子的号码,可以判断出你是不是能够和对方巧妙地吵嘴的姑娘。 定1的人 定2的人 定3的人 定4的人 定5的人 分析: 定1的人:你是认真严肃的人,被对方责怪了一下,或者不管是引起什么讨厌的事情,总认为全是自己不好,马上去赔礼道歉。因此,你和小伙子是不会吵架的。 定2的人:你有时发发牢骚,但很少生气发怒。自我克制,对想干的事也一忍再忍。不讲明讨厌对方,有时责怪一下对方,是让对方喜爱自己的窍门之一。 定3的人:发脾气责怪对方,或者意见不一致就争辩或吵架。对双方来讲,吵完之后,心情往往难以平静,要注意。 定4的人:你认为发生争执后,有时要让让对方,有时不必计较。可是,你有时也大发脾气,和对方极力争辩。不过,在那种时候常常是对方向你让步。 定5的人:任性放纵,为所欲为,可一吵架就心情发闷。她的内心焦躁不安,常生气发怒,使小伙子无所适从,不知如何为好。即使自己是正确的,有时也要考虑一下对方的心情。这种人目前很受小伙子宠...
好像听过这样的传说,天上的每一颗星星都属于一个人的一生,一个人的诞生与死亡,也意味着一颗星的出现和陨落,这样的说法是否属实,我不知道。 爱情,或许也是有着和星星一样的力量吧,当一个能够让你深深爱着的人出现时,人生就会象星星一样,突然散发光芒,直到那个人消失,星星的光亮也变得暗淡。 不知道是不是所有的人都因为拥有了爱情而像星星一样的发亮,但是我真的看到了这样的例子。 心中深深的默念着,如果我真得能够点亮一颗星,那么就让我为这颗星而存在吧,让它能够永远不灭,开开心心的。。。