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Another seperation story

This afternoon, I had tea break with some good friends in company cafe, there I knew about a lady in my company, who had similar experience as me, that her husband was relocating to another country for a year in past. Then, the lady decided to take long leave and followed his husband there, she is a brave lady because she was willing to give up her career for her loved one, actually I felt respect to her. When I was in decision making situation, I was hesitated to choose give up any of them, therefore I chose to stay in Malaysia when SL was going for relocation at half year ago because I think eight months wasn't too long for us and we should be able to go through those tough period. However, I would choose to follow him if seperation is longer than a year, as I know that is our limit. When situation comes to selection, I think girl always is the one who sacrified herself for her family, actually I don't like this because this is really unfair to girl, why can't girls keep ...

Where Got Ghost?

Saturday of 26 September, SL and I had our first two-people world weekend for his home trip, that we woke up early morning for his motor delivery backed to Johor, because we won't use the motor for next year. However, there were some unhappy incident happened during his motor delivery, like he filled up too much fuel and his brake jammed, then he needed to fix them before delivered it. Fortunately, everything went well finally, else I think SL would be angry for quite some time. Later, we had our breakfast for "dim sum" at Abu Siti Lane, this is what SL required to taste because he didn't take this type of Chinese for long time. Further on, we went for singing at Red Box, this is another activity that we missed out for quite some time. Thereafter, we watched a movie in Gurney Plaza, which is "Where Got Ghost?" from Neo Studio. Actually, I was with high expectation on Neo's movie, but this movie is just too bad to watch, it wasn't good at all, and eve...

be resilience

This morning, I was attending a class from company, it is something about how do we face changing situation in our live and work, the class was so interesting that we could get involved in some activities that helped us to learn team work, decision making, communication and so on for our daily life. That is a thing really correct from the instructor, that e-mail actually is the most useless and dangerous tool for communication, which face to face is the best channel. Also, the instructor mentioned that many people are afraid of change and uncertainty, therefore management is playing an important role to avoid miscommunication from up to down. During the game, I got to learn something that team work, communication, good leadership and strategy planning are really important, that only can build a good team among us. At the end of class, the instructor told us about resilience, that mean be able to quickly return to a previous good condition, that he shared us a vidoe on how a person lost...

the Spring

Friday of 25 September, YH had a lunch gathering at his new house at the Spring, this is an IJM project at Jelutong Highway, which every unit of the block is abled to see the see view of different directions. While I walked into YH's house, I was attracted by his wall painting, that was painted by YH and his wife, they were having some special pattern on their wall, this made the house looks different and more beautiful. From their painting, I found that is a good idea to paint one of the wall with different colour (either lighter colour or darker colour), and the other three with the other colour from same series, this would make the house looks nice. Yes, it is really nice. Apart from its high maintainance fee, I personally think it is quite a beautiful place, an IJM project would promise its quality. Besides house warming, we also celebrated birthday of three friends together with candle blowing, it really was a pleasure gathering.

the host

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Stephenie Meyer is famous with her four books of Twilight Saga - Twilight, New Moon, Eclipse and Breaking Dawn, MS and LE watched the movie of twilight that they loved the story so much, this really made me wondering if twilight is really that nice. One day, I went to a bookshop and saw "the host" is a book from Stephenie Meyer too, then I just chose it as my first Stephenie Meyer reading, instead of twilight, because I would like to see if her new book "the host" would be worth enough for me to own the four books of twilight saga. Finally, I have completed reading "the host" today and I would like to say that I really love Stephenie's story, I think she is a good literature writer and good story teller, that I really adicted so much in the story around Wanderer with Melanie(main character of the host). "the host" is a story about invasion of alien to the earth, which aliens live like a soul, that they need to have a host body for keeping the...

the host's Wanderer

I am reading a book from Stephenie Meyer recently, "the host", there is a kind of alien in the book, they live like a soul and they need to have a host (human body, plants, animal, insect or any creatures) to keep them living, their lives are transferred from a host to another host, therefore they can live up to many lives as long as that they could live in a healthy host and be transfer before their host has been destroyed. And Wanderer is a soul in the book and she is the main character in the book, that she had been transferred for nine lives before she started with a human's host, that she had been travelling among nine different planets until she came to the earth. Why is she a wanderer? Normally, a soul would travel for just 2 to 3 planets, then they would settle down at the favourite planet forever, there they would transfer from host to anothe host in the same planet. But, Wanderer wasn't settled down even she had been traveling among nine planets. Sometimes, ...

The Joke of Reunion

After long Raya holidays and visa interview, I started working on Thursday, which was my first working day during SL's home trip and I honorly had SL been my driver to office. Before we went to office, SL and I took our breakfast at the famous "baked bread" near to airport, but we couldn't see the crowd as usual, this might because of long holidays. Then the joke started when SL dropped me at my company building, that I need to say, I usually put my office bag at rear seat, therefore I need to open the rear door to get my bag first before I could go to office. However, SL didn't wait for me to do that but he just drove the car away after I left the car =.=" There I tried to wave my hand to stop him, but he didn't notice the tiny me :( Fortunately, I met a friend (SC) at company's lobby, that he played joke on my funny experience :P but he still borrowed me his handphone to call SL backed to ofiice, until then I just couldn't stop laughing on this....